Awakening HER : Life and Business for Women

Overcome the Fear of Being Seen & Step Into The Spotlight

Episode Summary

“What if your biggest breakthrough is hiding behind your fear of being seen?” If you’ve ever felt the push to step into the spotlight—whether it’s speaking on stage, showing up more in your business, or sharing your message—but you keep finding yourself shrinking back, this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, Deidre Sirianni shares her personal journey of overcoming the fear of being seen, the real-life experiences that made her want to retreat, and how she found the courage to move forward despite fear.

Episode Notes

“What if your biggest breakthrough is hiding behind your fear of being seen?”

If you’ve ever felt the push to step into the spotlight—whether it’s speaking on stage, showing up more in your business, or sharing your message—but you keep finding yourself shrinking back, this episode is for you.

In today’s conversation, I share my personal journey of overcoming the fear of being seen, the real-life experiences that made me want to retreat, and how I found the courage to move forward despite fear.

We’ll talk about:
🔥 The hidden reasons why fear of visibility keeps showing up
🔥 How past experiences shape your beliefs around being seen
🔥 The difference between fate and destiny—and how to choose your path
🔥 Why fear is actually an initiation into your next level
🔥 How to take radical action and stop letting fear control your choices

If you’re ready to own your voice, get visible, and step into leadership, this episode will inspire you to take action—even before you feel "ready."

📣 Plus! If you’re looking for hands-on mentorship to help you master your story, craft a powerful talk, and get booked on stages & podcasts, my new program is launching soon!

📅 Book a 30-minute call to see if it’s the right fit for you: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=13066786&appointmentType=2271501

📌 Show Notes & Timestamps:

[00:00] – Welcome & Episode Introduction

• Why fear of being seen holds so many people back
• My personal experience with fear and visibility

[05:12] – Where Fear of Being Seen Comes From

• How childhood programming, societal expectations, and past experiences shape our fears
• Why women, in particular, struggle with visibility due to societal conditioning

[10:45] – My First Live Event & The Betrayal That Almost Made Me Quit

• The story of how someone I trusted tried to tear me down after my first live event
• The emotional impact and how I internalized the experience
• How this shaped my subconscious fear of putting myself out there again

[18:30] – Realizing I Was Sabotaging My Own Growth

• How my team called me out on avoiding live events after COVID
• Why we unconsciously create patterns of avoidance when fear takes over
• The moment I realized I had to face my fear head-on

[24:50] – Fear vs. Destiny: The Truth About Taking Action

• The difference between fate and destiny and how it applies to your success
• Why fear is an initiation into your next level
• How to stop waiting to feel “ready” and start taking radical action

[30:20] – Lessons from My TEDx Talk & The Internet’s Reaction

• What I learned about visibility from getting over 140,000 views on my TEDx Talk
• Why being seen means dealing with both love and criticism
• How I learned to handle public feedback & stay focused on my mission

[38:10] – How to Move Through Fear & Step Into Leadership

• Why fear is just an emotion—it only lasts 60-90 seconds unless you feed it
• The importance of declaring what you want & taking bold action
• Why the Universe rewards courageous decisions

[45:00] – The Power of Speaking & Why It’s a Game-Changer for Your Business

• How speaking has been the #1 driver of my business growth
• Why getting visible is the fastest way to grow your influence, impact, and income
• How you can start leveraging your voice, even if you feel scared

[50:30] – Your Next Step: Own Your Voice & Step Into the Spotlight

• If you feel the pull to be seen, it’s time to take action
• Why mentorship accelerates success & how I can help
• 📅 Book a free call to explore my program: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=13066786&appointmentType=2271501